10 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED

This week  however, I choose to focus on the women.  I hear women complain that their man is cheating on them even when they try hard to satisfy him. However it’s time for you to check your faults, you may also be making one or more of the following mistakes, which is killing the vibes in your man. Let us look at the common mistakes I feel most women are guilty of.

Mistake 1. He is not a mind reader

I cannot understand why women think a man should know it all in bed. That a man has had experiences does not make him qualified for all women, so you should open up and tell him what you want or else he would treat you the same way he treated the last, learn to express your desires to your companion.

Mistake 2. Shut up and drive

I intentionally wrote this point on the heels of the first so you do not get it mixed up. Bed/sex time is not the time to drawl about your day or make financial demands nor is it a time to lament about his cheating. Quit the chatter, it is a huge turn off for most men. Let your conversation be centered on the event and make it short and sensual.

Mistake 3. She is a boring box

Why do you have to lie down like a log of wood and expect the man to enjoy sex with you? Let us face it, some body response from you would encourage your man. You need not be a bore in life and in bed. Show some enthusiasm here. Let’s just say you can start by moving your waist to the rhythm?.

Mistake 4.  She has low self-esteem

This mistake I would dare say may be the most common, most women are conscious of their flabby ass, protruding stomach, lumpy flesh etc. Well findings have shown that at the moment of sex, a man is sure not seeing those flaws. Quit complaining about those things and who says he hasn’t accessed you long before he took you up. Learn to be confident about your body because low self-esteem brings about bad sex.

Mistake 5. Don’t mistake tickling for pleasure

It is natural for women to be more ticklish than men, therefore except you’re sure he enjoys being tickled please stop it. Just because he strains his legs and moves his body or has a smile on his face does not mean he enjoys your tickling moves. He may just be fighting the urge to kick you in the face.

Mistake 6. She the piglet

Personal hygiene for both parties is very important but much more for the woman. No one wants to see an overgrown…, it is completely uninviting. Have a shower and wear clean lingerie before going to bed. You may use light cologne to give you a more pleasant fragrance. That sure would go a long way in enhancing the mood.

Mistake 7. She never initiates lovemaking

I do not understand why a woman would desire sex from her man yet keep quiet about it. Why starve yourself for something you crave for? It is a plus to women who know what they want and go for it. You need not hold unto your guards all the time. Do not be scared to reveal your desires, it is sure an intriguing part that most men want to appreciate.

Mistake 8.  The school called sex

Ladies should realise that sex is not all about the act; it is a process of learning and experimenting. Do not be stuck up with the one thing you have known all you life. Experiment and learn more, most men are good teachers if you are a willing and good student.

Mistake 9. He licks your sauce you ignore his sausage

Do you like getting head? Yes! Do you give a blow jobs? No! Huh? That is not a balance diet if you ask me; the sauce should go with the sausage. In addition, you could ask how the sausage should be eaten if you do not know, rather than groping in the dark, a blow job sure requires some talent.

Mistake 10. Gliding off for a shower.

Cannot understand it when women scamper off for a shower or get dressed immediately after sex. What is the point for that? Hang around in bed and relish the moment. Cuddling and snuggling together would make the experience better!

Nigerian Govt to make birth control law

Government is contemplating a legislation to control population growth, President Goodluck Jonathan said yesterday.

Dr. Jonathan said although the issue of population regulation is very sensitive, government cannot fold its arms until the country’s population becomes uncontrollable.

The President spoke at the inauguration of the Chairman and Commissioners of the National Population Commission (NPC) at the Presidential Villa in Abuja.

He said Nigeria would not be the first country to make law on birth control, adding that religious belief should not be a tool to frustrate a good policy.

Former Managing Director of Nigeria Brewery PLC, Chief Festus Odumegwu, was inaugurated as Chairman of the Commission. Twenty two of the 23 appointed Commissioners took the oath of Office and oath of Allegiance.

The Commissioner representing Sokoto, Sen. Jubril Gada, was absent.

The President assured that government would carry out enough sensitisation before making the law controlling birth and population.

He also directed the NPC team to begin advocacy on birth control and promised government support and funding.

“For us to plan properly, we must manage our population, but it is extremely sensitive, we are extremely religious people, either you are a Christian or Moslem.

“Both Christians and Moslems and even traditionalists believe that children are God’s gifts to man, so it is difficult for you to tell any Nigerian to limit the number of their children because they are gifts of God.

“It is a very sensitive thing but we must begin to think about it. We must begin to think about how we manage it

“The key thing is that how you will through your advocacy come up with plans and programmes that as a way of advocacy you begin to encourage Nigerians to have the number of children they can manage before government comes up with clear policies and guidelines.

“First and foremost is the personal consciousness that people should get the family they can manage.

“Sometimes you get to somebody’s house living in a well furnished duplex. The husband and wife there may have two, three four children. The maiguard guiding them have nine children. That is the scenario you have.

“That means there is a segment of the population that knows that you must get a number that you can manage but the other segment of the population don’t.

“If you are use to military barracks you see that the officers, General this, Major General this, Brigadier this, Colonel this have three, five children but those that have no rank have eight, twelve.

“This is the scenario. The people up, probably because of their level of education know that they must control thei population, but the people down, because of the level of exposure and education are still not aware that you must control your population.“So first and foremost, before government comes up with regulations, guidelines or laws, Nigerians must be made to know that we cannot continue to procreate and procreate even though we know children are God’s gifts,’’ he said.

The President noted that Nigeria would not be the first country to make laws controlling population and religious belief should not be a tool to frustrate good policy.

Meanwhile, the President has also set 2015 deadline for National Population Commission (NPC) to complete the issuance of national Identity Cards to all eligible Nigerians.

According to the president a situation where government had spent lot of fund on the project without getting results is not acceptable.

He said the Commission should liaise with the Presidential Committee on the National Identity Card to ensure its prompt completion.

The President has also asked the Commission to commence the process for the 2016 National Census because of its importance to national growth.

“There cannot be genuine sustained development if it is not anchored on accurate and reliable data.

“No meaningful planning is possible without dependable data and statistics. This informs why we have chosen these distinguished men and women to run the affairs of NPC,’’ he said.

The president also charged them to demonstrate the highest standard in the discharge of their duties and warned them against primordial divisive tendencies.

He also warned the Commission not to subject the sensitive issue of census figure and demographics to the expediency of cheap political advantage and political discord. The President commended the immediate past leadership of the Commission for effective 2006 Census and charged the new members to consolidate on the achievements.

The new board has three female commissioners. These are Mrs Roli , Mrs Sheyi Olusanya and Mrs Cecilia Dakwot .

Others members are, Mr David Danuwa (Adamawa), Mr. Moses Ekpo (Akwa Ibom), Alhaji Mohammed Hamman (Borno), Alhaji Idi Baba Yakubu (Cross River) , Dr Tunde Lakoju (Edo) and Mr Bala Mogaji (Gombe).The Commissioners also include; Mr. Nwogu Emmanuel (Imo), Alh. Mohammed Suraju (Kano), Mr.Mohammed Akuboh (Kogi), Alhaji Abubakar Ndake (Kwara), Mr. Zakare Umaru-Kifo (Nasarawa) and Chief Olalere Oyewumi (Osun)We also have; Dr. Oluremi Akogun (Ondo), Mr. Donald Wokoma (Rivers), Sen. Anguno Sunday-Zik (Taraba), Prof. Simon Chika (Anambra), Dr. Chima Uzor (Enugu), and Mr. Chris Okereke (Ebonyi).

Culled: The Nation